The Alphabet of Sex – G is for G Spot

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G is for G-Spot

No, it’s not a myth. Women really do have G-spots – that magical place inside us which, when triggered, releases a torrent of climactic goodness. Tragically, it’s not just men who don’t believe in its existence, plenty of women, too, have never experienced what it’s like to have their G-spot stimulated, because they just don’t know where it is.

It’s rare that women climax vaginally, and that’s because our main pleasure point, our clitoris, is located outside the body, and away from where contact is made when we fuck. Sure, we can use vibrators or get our lovers (but usually ourselves!) to stimulate us during sex, so we have at least a small chance of orgasming at the same time as the guys, but even if that happens, I promise you that a clitoral orgasm is NOTHING LIKE a G-Spot orgasm. For this reason alone, women must make it their mission to find, and have their lover find, this super-sensitive place inside us, because once that happens, sex will never be the same again… So,how to find it?

This is written for guys, to help you become superheroes in the bedroom, but women too can learn a few tips. Remember, sex toys are your friend, and there are loads of G-spot vibrators out there so you can have some saucy G-spot fun all by yourself. My favorites include the Je T’aime Le Point G and the Waterproof G-Spot Glitz. If you’re a beginner, try the inexpensive My First G-Spot Massager in pink, until you’re ready to graduate to the bigger models.

 1.  How to find it

gpotGet your lover to lie on her back somewhere comfortable – on the bed or in the bath. Insert one two fingers up inside her vagina, then feel backwards, as though you were ‘hooking’ her back. You should feel some lightt ridges and then a smooth, fleshy spot. This is the G-spot! You’ll know when you’ve hit the spot, as she might get an urge to pee. The G-spot is located on the urethra wall, so touching it can trigger that sensation. She’s unlikely to pee, so don’t worry, it’s just a false alarm!

You can also use a sex toy to find her G-spot. As mentioned, there are plenty of vibrators and dildos specifically designed to trigger the G-spot, so don’t be afraid to get some help.

2. How to work her

fingerOnce you’ve located her G-spot, begin to massage it slowly and lightly. Touch her in a rhythm that suits you both and feel how her body responds to your touch. Feel how her other genitals respond, too – her clitoris, her mons pubis, her vulva…they all have a role to play here. Just go with the flow and keep that massage rhythm going – you’ll soon know how fast or slow to go. The important thing is for your lover to know that she can just let go and leave herself in your capable hands.

3. What will happen

orgasmG-spots are very powerful things. It’ll help if your lover empties her bladder, for reasons already mentioned, because when that orgasm hits, she’ll definitely want to surrender to the waterfall of climax, which often means lots of other muscles around that area will relax. What you don’t want, is for your lover to try and hold her orgasm, afraid that she’ll pee if she lets go. She needs to feel totally at ease and able to just go with the flow of her climax. If she does this, that climax will be ten times more powerful than anything she’s experienced clitorally. The easy solution for those peeing/orgasming fears, is to have sex in the bath – that way it doesn’t matter!

When she approaches climax, encourage her that it’s OK to let go, to not hold anything back. Just like guys, she’ll feel a powerful urge to ejaculate. All she’s doing is expelling the fluid which has built up inside her during arousal, exactly the same as you do. The first time she does this, she might be surprised about how much cum she releases, but one thing she won’t argue with is the immense pleasure now flooding through her body.

So if you want to be ‘that guy’ who is the only one able to stimulate your lover this way, get practising on her. Then, when you’re an expert with your hands, start training your cock to hit that magic spot every time. Just knowing that her pleasure is your No.1 priority, should be enough to earn you some Brownie points, and who knows how she’ll want to repay you!

Have fun!

BBx

“Sex Snacks #5 – Eliza: Illicit Pleasures” – FREE e-Book Available NOW on Smashwords!!

To celebrate my “return to life, I’ve just published a new naughty short story “Eliza: Illicit Pleasures”, #5 in my “Sex Snacks” series. You can get it FREE @ Smashwords (and in a couple of weeks @ Amazon, too.)

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Synopsis:

Tired of her going-nowhere affair with the arrogant Rupert, Eliza finds herself responding to the attentions of Piero; the handsome Italian manager of the hotel where Eliza and Rupert meet. Succumbing to Piero’s Latin charms, Eliza gets a raunchy lesson in love in the hot and steamy surroundings of the hotel kitchen…

It’s HOT! So download for FREE now, and don’t forget to check out the other titles in my “Sex Snacks” series, plus the very raunchy adventures of CJ Mills in “The Honey Trap Files” and dark and brooding Mike McCoy in “The Drifter”. Stay tuned for more naughty episodes cumming your way soon!

Lots of love BB xx

The Phoenix Rises – Bebe Is Back!

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So yes, it’s me, back from a very prolonged absence which would take too long to explain, suffice to say it involved a break-up, a moving out and a whole life change to somewhere new. Has taken a while to pick myself up, but now I’m back and ready to publish like crazy.

I have new stories to give to you, plus I’m raring to get back on track with my popular “Alphabet of Sex”, where I detail all my favorite experiences and positions from A to Zee.

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Stay tuned for some explosive erotica – one little story coming up later today! Thanks for your patience – let’s reconnect at last! Hope y’all doing good out there. Let’s raise a glass to hot and sweaty Summer of Naughtiness!

BB xx

Sex Snacks #4 – Deedee: Dangerous Liaison – FREE e-Book available now @ Smashwords!

Wow, what a crazy 6 months it’s been. I had to move home, twice, get a new job, and then try and enjoy some of the rare hot English summer. Is it really December next week? Well I promise I won’t be so tardy with the rest of the Sex Snacks series – there are 22 to go, after all!

So after an unwanted delay, the next short story in the erotica series is now online @ Smashwords, for your FREE enjoyment. Hope you enjoy it, and don’t forget to review if you did!

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Synopsis:

Deedee Miller is a 19-year old intern at the Ladysmith Theater in Calabasas, CA. The latest show in town is a production of “Les Liaisons Dangereuse” starring Hollywood heart throb, Brett Carrey. Reminded of a previous lover, Deedee struggles to keep her desires under wraps as she becomes seduced by the sensual, erotic ambiance of the play…and the players.

Part of the Sex Snacks series of erotic short stories.

Enjoy!

BBxx

The Alphabet of Sex – F is for Fucking

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F is for Fucking…

Of course it is! Everybody should fuck as often as possible – it’s great for mind, body and soul. Don’t make the mistake of thinking sex is just a physical, animal thing. It’s way more than that. Obviously, it’s different for men and women – but us girls are actually luckier because we have lots of ways of cumming, whereas guys tend to rely on their cocks. So I thought I’d share my own favorite positions, so girls can get experimenting, and guys can get educating!

 1.  The Fold-In-Half

This might sound painful, but it’s really not. Girls, lie back on the bed and put a pillow under your butt. Then lift your legs up as though you’re about to hook them over your lover’s shoulders, but keep them lifted and pull them even further back towards you – as though you’re bending yourself in half. The pillow gives leverage and support so it’s really not uncomfortable. Your lover will then be able to push his cock much deeper inside you. I find that my G-spot gets a real workout in this position, and when it feels like I’m about to cum, I then tell my lover to lift himself a little, so he can grind against my clit as he fucks me faster. Seconds later, I’m cumming from inside and out. Takes practice, but once you get the rhythm right, this is mindblowing.

2. The Flat Doggy

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Doggy-style – the guys love this but it’s a real winner for us girls, too, if you do it right. Being fucked from behind lets your lover get a real grip on your hips so he can pound you to his heart’s content. They love seeing our tits swing below us, as well (although this can get painful for those girls with planet-size globes!). Here’s a different way of doing the doggy, though. Lie flat on your stomach, and raise your ass a little so he can get inside you. When he’s into his rhythm, the friction is amazing as he presses down on top of you, and you also get to grind your clit into the bed underneath you. You don’t have to have stamina, because you’re lying down, and he’s doing all the work – bonus! Seriously, though, this position is ideal because it doesn’t take practice and you don’t need to be superfit. It’s a guaranteed climax-shaker, the next best thing to being fucked in your sleep, really. Mmmm.

3. The Cowgirl

So-called because you’re riding him on top, and I always like to tell my lover to “giddy up!”. Have your lover lie down, his legs slightly apart. Then get on top of him with your back to him, keep your legs together with your feet sitting in between his own legs. Then lower yourself onto his cock, and get riding. Because your legs are together, you’re going to feel much tighter on his cock, and you get the tightness of him, too. You can ‘swivel’ in this position, too, so give him some face time so he can watch your tits as you ride him, then turn back for when you really want to get thrusting. Use his knees and thighs as supports for your hands, and don’t neglect your clit, either – you have great access to it with this position. Better still, have your lover rub you off as you’re riding him.

4. On the Table!

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One of my most erotic sexual experiences, was being fucked on the kitchen table by my new lover who just couldn’t wait to get me to the bedroom. It really was like something from the movies, the way he just swept everything aside, threw me down, pulled my skirt up and dragged my hips to the edge of the table, before thrusting his cock right up into me, all within about 10 seconds. It was delicious, and not just the spontaneity of it, but also the feel. Your lover can get really, really deep inside you by doing it this way. If you hook your legs over his shoulders, you can pull him closer when it suits you, and he also has great access to your clit. By standing up, he gets more thrusting power and rhythm control, and all you have to do is lie back and let him work his magic.

5. The Stripper

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Possibly my favorite, because it involves real intimacy. I sit on my lover’s lap, like a lap dancer, and slide onto his cock. Then I grind my clit against him, leaning back a little so my tits are in his face, which he loves to feast on as he slow-fucks me. This can go on forever, as slow or as pumping as we like. You basically have total control over when and how you cum. We can kiss, suck, lick, all while his cock is hot inside me, and I love it when a guy’s sucking on my tits as he fucks me, so this position is ideal. I go totally off into a world of my own and the orgasm is incredible. Sometimes, when he knows I’m about to cum, he gently pushes me off him, onto my back, and goes down on me just in time for him to lick me to distraction. Timing is crucial on that one!

Sex Snacks #3 – Calista: Forbidden Forest – FREE @ Smashwords!

Hey guys!

Hope everybody’s doing well. Just to let you know that Sex Snacks #3 – Calista: Forbidden Forest, is now available for FREE download @ Smashwords. No coupon required, it’s all yours whenever you’re ready.

Check it out here.

                                             Synopsis:

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Calista is a beautiful young artist, living a solitary life in rural Alabama. Deciding to build a proper studio on her wild and rugged land, Calista enlists the services of a handsome young carpenter, Bailey, famed for his talents with his hands. What Calista isn’t prepared for, are just how trained those hands are, especially when they’re attending to every inch of her aching body…

And don’t forget to tell me what you think! You can also check out my other titles, on Smashwords and Amazon. I really hope you enjoy it!

I’m currently working on a saucy novel-length tome, which I’m hoping to make available for free, or for just a few cents. I believe in sharing what I love with people who love it just as much, so where I can offer for free, I promise I will do..

Peace, and happy orgasms! 

BBx

Bebe Just Got A Liebster!

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Exciting news! I just got nominated for a Liebster Blog Award, which is kinda great, but is also a reminder for me to blog more often, as blogs only qualify if they have less than 200 followers… ;) (Liebster is German for “favorite” by the way…).

So, anyway, the delightful Lexi Thornton is my champion, and you really must check out her sexy, scintillating little scribblings, which are hot, hot, hot. She’s a minxy diva who knows just which words to choose to get you feeling horny as hell, whatever the weather.

As part of the nomination procedure, there are certain rules which must be followed. And, as most of you are aware, I LOVE following rules, as long as I am occasionally allowed to break them.

The rules are:

1. Post 11 random facts about yourself

2. Answer the 11 questions posed by the blog that nominated you

3. Write-up 11 new questions to pass to…

4. …11 blogs you want to nominate yourself

5. You are not allowed to nominate the blog that nominated you

6. Paste the award picture into your blog (Google it, there are loads around – look, mine’s up there ^^^^^).

Hey, hey, hey, I love this kinda stuff, so here are my 11 random facts…

1. I lost my virginity quite late (in my 20s – I’m 32 now) but have more than made up for it since. Quality – not quantity!

2. I once had sex inside the cordon of mystical Stonehenge (naughty!), which definitely added to the experience!

3. I traveled the world when I was in my 20s, and once had (very discreet) sex in the baggage claim area of Sydney Airport.

4. I am a carnivore

5. I don’t have children (yet)

6. I love to sing around the house and think I have a good voice, but I lack the confidence to sing in public – amazing, considering the other things I get up to!

7. I have black hair and blue eyes

8. I believe in magic, the power of love, and karma. If you are unkind to people, I guarantee it will come back and bite you in the ass. If it doesn’t, then I will.

9. If I wasn’t so obsessed with sex and love, I’d be a surgeon. I am not at all squeamish (British word?), and am fascinated by how our bodies work (obviously)

10. I used to play volleyball for my Santa Monica high school and could have gotten a scholarship, I was that good. I chose travel instead (I never graduated college).

11. I believe I will die when I am 56 years old

And here are my answers to the questions posed by the gorgeous Lexi Thornton.

1. Do you ever remember your dreams?

I do! I’ve kept a Dream Diary every since I was a girl. Obviously, the content of those dreams has changed over time (!), but I am also a lucid dreamer, so I can ‘make things happen’, when I know I’m asleep. My dreams are crazy, and usually involve fucking of some description. I’m lucky not to stop having sex just because I’m asleep.

2. If you were on Death Row and had one last meal, what would it be?

I love cheese, so it would probably be a cheeseburger or a cheese platter. When I went to Amsterdam, I fell in love with something called fondue. And since I don’t have to worry about calories if I’m about to die, I’d definitely overdose on cheese.

3. If you could commit any crime and get away with it scot-free, what would you do?

I’d kill any person proven to have interfered with children. Such people do not have any place on the planet, never mind society.

4. You’re stuck in a lift, who would you most like to be stuck in there with?

Oooh, there are so many. At the moment, I’d say Colin Farrell. I need to be stuck with someone as dirty as me, so we could just forget the claustrophobia and get fucking. I would seriously fuck his brains out, right there.

5. Do you ever sing in public/karaoke, and what would/do you sing?

I sing all the time but rarely in public. I love Patsy Cline, Peggy Lee, classic female voices. If I thought I had the voice, though, I’d rock out to something like Evanescence’s “Bring Me To Life”. I’m a rock chick at heart.

6. Which is your favorite season?

Fall. I love the colors on the trees, the cooling temperature, and any excuse to snuggle up to a hot guy and get fucking in the middle of a forest somewhere.

7. Do you have any phobias?

Not really. I’m pretty chilled out.

8. Do you have an alter ego and, if so, what is she like?

Sometimes I think I’m a superhero, who kills baddies with seduction and sex. I often play out my fantasy in role play games. I seduce a man, get him back to my place, then fuck him so hard he thinks he’s dying. Then I have to save his life. Next morning, when I go back to work, I am back to the same old sweet Californian beach babe they all know and love.

9. Any bad habits you indulge in when nobody’s looking?

No. All my habits are good, if a little naughty. I masturbate under my desk all the time, which gives me a thrill because nobody has a clue what I’m doing. Sometimes I don’t call a guy back, so I guess that’s a bad habit but, hey, he should have been better in bed!

10. What 3 items would you take with you if you were marooned on a desert island?

a) my vibrator

b) a lifetime’s supply of batteries

c) Colin Farrell

11. What’s the most selfless thing you’ve done for another human being?

I think I’m pretty giving, but I’m not rich or anything like that. I guess the most selfless thing I’ve done was give up my seat on a plane when I was coming back to LAX from Tokyo. Long trip, and the plane was overbooked, I was so tried and just wanted to get home, but there was a girl also traveling alone, who needed to get back to Ojai because her mom was ill. It was no brainer, really, but it did mean me having to sleep on the airport floor until the next flight 9 hours later.

And here are my 11 questions for the 11 blogs I have since nominated:

1. When do you think you will die?

2. If you could be invisible for a day, where would you go and why?

3. What is your favorite sport?

4. Do you believe in love at first sight, or is a one-time fuck totally where you’re at?

5. Which nation do you think is the world’s sexiest?

6. Is there anything sexual you haven’t tried but would like to, if you knew there would be no comeback?

7. How far is too far?

8. If you could have written any song, which one would it have been?

9. The Beatles or The Rolling Stones?

10. Do you think you are capable of murder?

11. Which five people would you invite around your house for the ultimate dinner party?

Thanks again Lexi for nominating me!

And to everyone out there, there’s a new “Sex Snack” coming before the end of the week – so stay tuned for your free coupon!

BBx

Sex Snacks #2 – Betty: Valentine’s Delight – FREE @ Smashwords until Feb 17th

Hi everyone! And Happy Valentine’s!!

As promised, here’s a new naughty story for you to celebrate this gorgeously romantic day. At the moment it’s only on Smashwords, and you can download your FREE copy right now, for three days only. Just enter the coupon code at the checkout, and get your sexy little story-ette right now!

Synopsis:

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Betty Taylor, 29, is dreading Valentine’s. After splitting with her cheating lover, Betty’s newly-single, and just wants February 14th to come and go as quickly as possible. But when her life is saved by a handsome stranger, the sexual chemistry between them sizzles, and Betty thinks that maybe she can secure herself some sultry, sexy action on this one enchanted evening, after all.

Coupon code: LE42V 

Valid until: February 17th 2013

I hope you enjoy this steamy little tale, and don’t forget to review if you like it! Speak soon!

Love, BB xx

The Alphabet Of Sex – E Is For Experimentation

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I’ve been on forced hiatus for a few months, so sorry for leaving everybody in the lurch. I hope you had a super Christmas and New Years, and that you got some sexy gifts and PLENTY of personal attention over the festive season! I know I did…

Back to my Alphabet Of Sex, and E is for Experimentation...

As most of you know, I love to try things I’ve never tried before. Sometimes I think there’s nothing left to try, but then something comes along that I think “well, I never did that…yet”.

I didn’t lose my virginity until quite late, but every time I try a new sexual position, or new sex toy, or even just a new guy, it always feels like I’m popping my cherry all over again, because it’s simply a ‘new experience’.

As I’ve gotten older, it does get harder and harder to find things that excite me as freshly as stuff did right at the start, but I just tell myself that finding new challenges is up to me, it’s absolutely my responsibility to go and search out experiences that keep me feeling alive. Nothing comes along by nature, because nature dictates that we must determine out own survival.

For this reason, I try to do something new at least once a month, to keep my sex life new and fresh. I have reliable lovers that I can always go to if I need company, and a guaranteed great fuck, but it’s vital not to fall into a routine, no matter how happy my lover/s make me, because the moment I get settled, is the moment I stop looking for something more, and we should always be looking for ‘more’.

This is one of the reasons I insist on staying single. I like intimacy as much as the next person, but I refuse to be someone’s ‘girlfriend’. It restricts me and makes me feel labeled.

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One way of maintaining my individuality, and my appetite for something different, is that I like to experiment, and deviate, from whatever the ‘norm’ is. So below are a few suggestions for those of you who feel a little stale in your sex life. Spice things up a bit, do something a little out of the ordinary. Whether you’re in a long term relationship, or are happily playing the field – it doesn’t matter. These suggestions are for everybody. Don’t settle for routine and normality, because nothing is more guaranteed to kill a relationship, or stunt your single lifestyle, than just going through the motions.

Live a little, and let me know how you get on.

1. Tie me up, tie me down…

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I was quite late to the bondage scene, perhaps I was a little afraid to trust a lover to tie me up. It’s not that I make a habit of fucking men I don’t know, but even if you’ve know a guy for a while, letting someone put bonds on you is about as trusting as it gets. I’m happy to say, though, that I’ve never had a bad experience, so if you’ve always wondered what it would be like to have sex while your wrists and ankles are tied up, restricting your movement, try some playful restraints to start you off, before switching things up a bit, maybe with some fetish ball gags or bondage bar.

2. Dress up!

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Everyone loves a little role play. Fantasy plays a huge part in my sex life, because it removes inhibitions for both me and my lover, and we can be anybody we choose without surrendering anything of ourselves. My favorite outfits are schoolgirl and nurse, but when I found myself bringing a real-life cop home one night, I brought out my own undercover uniform, which really got him going and I have to say it was some of the best sex I’d ever had. Getting fucked in the ass by a guy in uniform (yes, I made him keep it on…) was mindblowing.

3. No pain, no gain…

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This was a non-starter for me, many moons ago, but about three years ago, my lover of the time asked me ever-so-nicely, if I would let him put nipple clamps on my tits while we fucked. I laughed at first, because the idea just seemed so silly, and I couldn’t believe the thought of it turned him on, but I kind of liked him so I said yeah, I’d give it a try. And boy am I glad I did! Sure, they hurt a little bit, but as we got down to it, the feel of these tiny, cold metal things pulling my nipples in a kind of rhythm as we fucked, was weirdly erotic to me, and by the time I was ready to come, my nipples started to feel really hot, like I was conducting electricity through the clamps. It’s a hard sensation to explain, so you really have to try it, but never say never! I don’t use them often – usually only when the guy wants to, but the sensation was definitely something I could get used to.

4. Go swinging!

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I don’t mean the partner-swop parties (although they’re really fun), I mean the swings you can fix to doors. They’re really easy to instal, and your lover can fuck you a lot deeper than he can on a bed. It helps if you’re quite flexible (I do a lot of yoga and tantric sex, so I’m pretty clued up on what satisfies me), and you need to stretch and warm up before attempting a prolonged swing-screwing session, but once you get the hang of it (literally!), you’ll enjoy mindblowing sex, from every direction and every angle.

These are just a few things you can try out, if you’re feeling experimental, so let me know how you get on.

Next week, normal regular service is resumed, and I have a super-hot free story heading your way to say thanks for being so patient with me.

Have a great weekend, and come back soon!

BB xx

“The Drifter” Erotic Short Story Series – Now Available on AMAZON!

Happy New Year,

Hope 2013 brings you all everything you wish for. Remember, be amazing!

In case you need some sexy new stories to launch you into the new year, or are still too hungover to do any real work (!), you might like to know that my erotica short story series, “The Drifter” is now available through Amazon. Check out my author page here, where you can easily find all the titles listed.

Join or hot hero, Mike McCoy, as he fucks his way across California, trying to deal with the grief of losing his beloved wife, Cassie.

Treat yourself to some January japery, and snuggle up under the covers with these hot little stories – guaranteed to make these winter nights sizzle!

Sending much love out to you all over the virtual ether…

BB xx