The Alphabet of Sex – H Is For Horny

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Ever since I moved to the UK, I’ve noticed that they use this word a lot – horny, meaning very turned on and in need of a good fucking. I love the word because it sounds dirty and naughty without being too “in your face.” But do you ever have times when you’re just not feeling horny at all? Whether you’re stressed at work or have a demanding home life, it’s not easy to get in the mood for sex.

I believe we should feel naughty all of the time, so I thought I’d share my favorite ways of being able to feel horny all day long.

1 – Wear sexy lingerie

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It doesn’t matter where you’re going, what you’re doing or who you’re doing it with, wearing sexy lingerie just automatically makes you feel horny. I could be running to the store in my sweats with tied back hair and filthy sneakers, but I always have hot panties on. There’s something about the feeling of satin and lace against my pussy which just makes me feel permanently horny. And if you feel sexy on the inside, it shows on the outside. So throw out any unflattering underwear and splash out on a whole new drawer of gorgeous lingerie to make you feel special all of the time. Buy sexy lingerie here.

2. Use scent

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I mean not just perfumes, but anything from scented candles and incense, to aromatic foods and, of course, our own unique scents. I love being surrounded by smells like sandalwood, patchouli and musk, because they ignite past memories of great sex and former lovers who were fabulous bed. But my favorite scent is always that raw smell of sex, it’s our natural pheromones working overtime to excite us. If you’re single, or in a relationship where the sex is just not happening, then don’t be afraid to satisfy yourself. When I masturbate, I love smelling myself afterwards, that hot rawness of my own pussy is just the best smell out there. Buy sexy scents here.

3. Watch a naughty movie

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Feeling horny is all about stimulating the senses, so if you and your lover need a kick in the right direction, either check out some of the hot pornos out there right now, or log in to a live sex show online – there are lots of websites offering live voyeuristic sex and most of them are secure to use. There’s nothing hotter than lying with your lover and watching other people have sex. How can you not get in the mood after that? Get naughty movies here.

4. Invest in a new sex toy

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We’ve already touched on masturbation (excuse the pun!) but even if you have a treasure chest full of sex toys, it’s easy to get bored with the same old vibrators and dildos, so maybe it’s time to expand your sexual horizons and look at purchasing something new. My personal favorites include anal beads, which I use at the same time as a vibe on my clit to give me an extra sensation from my ass when I orgasm. I also love those cute little vibrators which fit in your panties. They’re basically clit-sized, and remote-controlled, so you can just slip them in as you go about your day and get yourself off quick and easy as and when you need to. You can also buy the built-in version attached to special panties. I get mine from Sienna Sinclaire’s store, here.

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The Alphabet of Sex – G is for G Spot

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G is for G-Spot

No, it’s not a myth. Women really do have G-spots – that magical place inside us which, when triggered, releases a torrent of climactic goodness. Tragically, it’s not just men who don’t believe in its existence, plenty of women, too, have never experienced what it’s like to have their G-spot stimulated, because they just don’t know where it is.

It’s rare that women climax vaginally, and that’s because our main pleasure point, our clitoris, is located outside the body, and away from where contact is made when we fuck. Sure, we can use vibrators or get our lovers (but usually ourselves!) to stimulate us during sex, so we have at least a small chance of orgasming at the same time as the guys, but even if that happens, I promise you that a clitoral orgasm is NOTHING LIKE a G-Spot orgasm. For this reason alone, women must make it their mission to find, and have their lover find, this super-sensitive place inside us, because once that happens, sex will never be the same again… So,how to find it?

This is written for guys, to help you become superheroes in the bedroom, but women too can learn a few tips. Remember, sex toys are your friend, and there are loads of G-spot vibrators out there so you can have some saucy G-spot fun all by yourself. My favorites include the Je T’aime Le Point G and the Waterproof G-Spot Glitz. If you’re a beginner, try the inexpensive My First G-Spot Massager in pink, until you’re ready to graduate to the bigger models.

 1.  How to find it

gpotGet your lover to lie on her back somewhere comfortable – on the bed or in the bath. Insert one two fingers up inside her vagina, then feel backwards, as though you were ‘hooking’ her back. You should feel some lightt ridges and then a smooth, fleshy spot. This is the G-spot! You’ll know when you’ve hit the spot, as she might get an urge to pee. The G-spot is located on the urethra wall, so touching it can trigger that sensation. She’s unlikely to pee, so don’t worry, it’s just a false alarm!

You can also use a sex toy to find her G-spot. As mentioned, there are plenty of vibrators and dildos specifically designed to trigger the G-spot, so don’t be afraid to get some help.

2. How to work her

fingerOnce you’ve located her G-spot, begin to massage it slowly and lightly. Touch her in a rhythm that suits you both and feel how her body responds to your touch. Feel how her other genitals respond, too – her clitoris, her mons pubis, her vulva…they all have a role to play here. Just go with the flow and keep that massage rhythm going – you’ll soon know how fast or slow to go. The important thing is for your lover to know that she can just let go and leave herself in your capable hands.

3. What will happen

orgasmG-spots are very powerful things. It’ll help if your lover empties her bladder, for reasons already mentioned, because when that orgasm hits, she’ll definitely want to surrender to the waterfall of climax, which often means lots of other muscles around that area will relax. What you don’t want, is for your lover to try and hold her orgasm, afraid that she’ll pee if she lets go. She needs to feel totally at ease and able to just go with the flow of her climax. If she does this, that climax will be ten times more powerful than anything she’s experienced clitorally. The easy solution for those peeing/orgasming fears, is to have sex in the bath – that way it doesn’t matter!

When she approaches climax, encourage her that it’s OK to let go, to not hold anything back. Just like guys, she’ll feel a powerful urge to ejaculate. All she’s doing is expelling the fluid which has built up inside her during arousal, exactly the same as you do. The first time she does this, she might be surprised about how much cum she releases, but one thing she won’t argue with is the immense pleasure now flooding through her body.

So if you want to be ‘that guy’ who is the only one able to stimulate your lover this way, get practising on her. Then, when you’re an expert with your hands, start training your cock to hit that magic spot every time. Just knowing that her pleasure is your No.1 priority, should be enough to earn you some Brownie points, and who knows how she’ll want to repay you!

Have fun!

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Sex Snacks #4 – Deedee: Dangerous Liaison – FREE e-Book available now @ Smashwords!

Wow, what a crazy 6 months it’s been. I had to move home, twice, get a new job, and then try and enjoy some of the rare hot English summer. Is it really December next week? Well I promise I won’t be so tardy with the rest of the Sex Snacks series – there are 22 to go, after all!

So after an unwanted delay, the next short story in the erotica series is now online @ Smashwords, for your FREE enjoyment. Hope you enjoy it, and don’t forget to review if you did!

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Synopsis:

Deedee Miller is a 19-year old intern at the Ladysmith Theater in Calabasas, CA. The latest show in town is a production of “Les Liaisons Dangereuse” starring Hollywood heart throb, Brett Carrey. Reminded of a previous lover, Deedee struggles to keep her desires under wraps as she becomes seduced by the sensual, erotic ambiance of the play…and the players.

Part of the Sex Snacks series of erotic short stories.

Enjoy!

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The Alphabet of Sex – F is for Fucking

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F is for Fucking…

Of course it is! Everybody should fuck as often as possible – it’s great for mind, body and soul. Don’t make the mistake of thinking sex is just a physical, animal thing. It’s way more than that. Obviously, it’s different for men and women – but us girls are actually luckier because we have lots of ways of cumming, whereas guys tend to rely on their cocks. So I thought I’d share my own favorite positions, so girls can get experimenting, and guys can get educating!

 1.  The Fold-In-Half

This might sound painful, but it’s really not. Girls, lie back on the bed and put a pillow under your butt. Then lift your legs up as though you’re about to hook them over your lover’s shoulders, but keep them lifted and pull them even further back towards you – as though you’re bending yourself in half. The pillow gives leverage and support so it’s really not uncomfortable. Your lover will then be able to push his cock much deeper inside you. I find that my G-spot gets a real workout in this position, and when it feels like I’m about to cum, I then tell my lover to lift himself a little, so he can grind against my clit as he fucks me faster. Seconds later, I’m cumming from inside and out. Takes practice, but once you get the rhythm right, this is mindblowing.

2. The Flat Doggy

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Doggy-style – the guys love this but it’s a real winner for us girls, too, if you do it right. Being fucked from behind lets your lover get a real grip on your hips so he can pound you to his heart’s content. They love seeing our tits swing below us, as well (although this can get painful for those girls with planet-size globes!). Here’s a different way of doing the doggy, though. Lie flat on your stomach, and raise your ass a little so he can get inside you. When he’s into his rhythm, the friction is amazing as he presses down on top of you, and you also get to grind your clit into the bed underneath you. You don’t have to have stamina, because you’re lying down, and he’s doing all the work – bonus! Seriously, though, this position is ideal because it doesn’t take practice and you don’t need to be superfit. It’s a guaranteed climax-shaker, the next best thing to being fucked in your sleep, really. Mmmm.

3. The Cowgirl

So-called because you’re riding him on top, and I always like to tell my lover to “giddy up!”. Have your lover lie down, his legs slightly apart. Then get on top of him with your back to him, keep your legs together with your feet sitting in between his own legs. Then lower yourself onto his cock, and get riding. Because your legs are together, you’re going to feel much tighter on his cock, and you get the tightness of him, too. You can ‘swivel’ in this position, too, so give him some face time so he can watch your tits as you ride him, then turn back for when you really want to get thrusting. Use his knees and thighs as supports for your hands, and don’t neglect your clit, either – you have great access to it with this position. Better still, have your lover rub you off as you’re riding him.

4. On the Table!

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One of my most erotic sexual experiences, was being fucked on the kitchen table by my new lover who just couldn’t wait to get me to the bedroom. It really was like something from the movies, the way he just swept everything aside, threw me down, pulled my skirt up and dragged my hips to the edge of the table, before thrusting his cock right up into me, all within about 10 seconds. It was delicious, and not just the spontaneity of it, but also the feel. Your lover can get really, really deep inside you by doing it this way. If you hook your legs over his shoulders, you can pull him closer when it suits you, and he also has great access to your clit. By standing up, he gets more thrusting power and rhythm control, and all you have to do is lie back and let him work his magic.

5. The Stripper

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Possibly my favorite, because it involves real intimacy. I sit on my lover’s lap, like a lap dancer, and slide onto his cock. Then I grind my clit against him, leaning back a little so my tits are in his face, which he loves to feast on as he slow-fucks me. This can go on forever, as slow or as pumping as we like. You basically have total control over when and how you cum. We can kiss, suck, lick, all while his cock is hot inside me, and I love it when a guy’s sucking on my tits as he fucks me, so this position is ideal. I go totally off into a world of my own and the orgasm is incredible. Sometimes, when he knows I’m about to cum, he gently pushes me off him, onto my back, and goes down on me just in time for him to lick me to distraction. Timing is crucial on that one!

Bebe Just Got A Liebster!

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Exciting news! I just got nominated for a Liebster Blog Award, which is kinda great, but is also a reminder for me to blog more often, as blogs only qualify if they have less than 200 followers… 😉 (Liebster is German for “favorite” by the way…).

So, anyway, the delightful Lexi Thornton is my champion, and you really must check out her sexy, scintillating little scribblings, which are hot, hot, hot. She’s a minxy diva who knows just which words to choose to get you feeling horny as hell, whatever the weather.

As part of the nomination procedure, there are certain rules which must be followed. And, as most of you are aware, I LOVE following rules, as long as I am occasionally allowed to break them.

The rules are:

1. Post 11 random facts about yourself

2. Answer the 11 questions posed by the blog that nominated you

3. Write-up 11 new questions to pass to…

4. …11 blogs you want to nominate yourself

5. You are not allowed to nominate the blog that nominated you

6. Paste the award picture into your blog (Google it, there are loads around – look, mine’s up there ^^^^^).

Hey, hey, hey, I love this kinda stuff, so here are my 11 random facts…

1. I lost my virginity quite late (in my 20s – I’m 32 now) but have more than made up for it since. Quality – not quantity!

2. I once had sex inside the cordon of mystical Stonehenge (naughty!), which definitely added to the experience!

3. I traveled the world when I was in my 20s, and once had (very discreet) sex in the baggage claim area of Sydney Airport.

4. I am a carnivore

5. I don’t have children (yet)

6. I love to sing around the house and think I have a good voice, but I lack the confidence to sing in public – amazing, considering the other things I get up to!

7. I have black hair and blue eyes

8. I believe in magic, the power of love, and karma. If you are unkind to people, I guarantee it will come back and bite you in the ass. If it doesn’t, then I will.

9. If I wasn’t so obsessed with sex and love, I’d be a surgeon. I am not at all squeamish (British word?), and am fascinated by how our bodies work (obviously)

10. I used to play volleyball for my Santa Monica high school and could have gotten a scholarship, I was that good. I chose travel instead (I never graduated college).

11. I believe I will die when I am 56 years old

And here are my answers to the questions posed by the gorgeous Lexi Thornton.

1. Do you ever remember your dreams?

I do! I’ve kept a Dream Diary every since I was a girl. Obviously, the content of those dreams has changed over time (!), but I am also a lucid dreamer, so I can ‘make things happen’, when I know I’m asleep. My dreams are crazy, and usually involve fucking of some description. I’m lucky not to stop having sex just because I’m asleep.

2. If you were on Death Row and had one last meal, what would it be?

I love cheese, so it would probably be a cheeseburger or a cheese platter. When I went to Amsterdam, I fell in love with something called fondue. And since I don’t have to worry about calories if I’m about to die, I’d definitely overdose on cheese.

3. If you could commit any crime and get away with it scot-free, what would you do?

I’d kill any person proven to have interfered with children. Such people do not have any place on the planet, never mind society.

4. You’re stuck in a lift, who would you most like to be stuck in there with?

Oooh, there are so many. At the moment, I’d say Colin Farrell. I need to be stuck with someone as dirty as me, so we could just forget the claustrophobia and get fucking. I would seriously fuck his brains out, right there.

5. Do you ever sing in public/karaoke, and what would/do you sing?

I sing all the time but rarely in public. I love Patsy Cline, Peggy Lee, classic female voices. If I thought I had the voice, though, I’d rock out to something like Evanescence’s “Bring Me To Life”. I’m a rock chick at heart.

6. Which is your favorite season?

Fall. I love the colors on the trees, the cooling temperature, and any excuse to snuggle up to a hot guy and get fucking in the middle of a forest somewhere.

7. Do you have any phobias?

Not really. I’m pretty chilled out.

8. Do you have an alter ego and, if so, what is she like?

Sometimes I think I’m a superhero, who kills baddies with seduction and sex. I often play out my fantasy in role play games. I seduce a man, get him back to my place, then fuck him so hard he thinks he’s dying. Then I have to save his life. Next morning, when I go back to work, I am back to the same old sweet Californian beach babe they all know and love.

9. Any bad habits you indulge in when nobody’s looking?

No. All my habits are good, if a little naughty. I masturbate under my desk all the time, which gives me a thrill because nobody has a clue what I’m doing. Sometimes I don’t call a guy back, so I guess that’s a bad habit but, hey, he should have been better in bed!

10. What 3 items would you take with you if you were marooned on a desert island?

a) my vibrator

b) a lifetime’s supply of batteries

c) Colin Farrell

11. What’s the most selfless thing you’ve done for another human being?

I think I’m pretty giving, but I’m not rich or anything like that. I guess the most selfless thing I’ve done was give up my seat on a plane when I was coming back to LAX from Tokyo. Long trip, and the plane was overbooked, I was so tried and just wanted to get home, but there was a girl also traveling alone, who needed to get back to Ojai because her mom was ill. It was no brainer, really, but it did mean me having to sleep on the airport floor until the next flight 9 hours later.

And here are my 11 questions for the 11 blogs I have since nominated:

1. When do you think you will die?

2. If you could be invisible for a day, where would you go and why?

3. What is your favorite sport?

4. Do you believe in love at first sight, or is a one-time fuck totally where you’re at?

5. Which nation do you think is the world’s sexiest?

6. Is there anything sexual you haven’t tried but would like to, if you knew there would be no comeback?

7. How far is too far?

8. If you could have written any song, which one would it have been?

9. The Beatles or The Rolling Stones?

10. Do you think you are capable of murder?

11. Which five people would you invite around your house for the ultimate dinner party?

Thanks again Lexi for nominating me!

And to everyone out there, there’s a new “Sex Snack” coming before the end of the week – so stay tuned for your free coupon!

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