OK, so nothing really dangerous or weird, just something different from the norm. It’s easy to slip into routines when it comes to sex, so it’s important to keep things fresh, especially if you’re married or in a long-term relationship. That feeling of illicit temptation we sometimes get when we’re in different situations, or we meet someone a bit dangerous that makes us challenge our own limits, that’s what we all need from time to time, to remind us that we’re still alive.
I met a guy once, who had that X-Factor. He wasn’t dazzlingly good looking, but he had tons of charisma, it just oozed from his soul like delicious treacle, and I couldn’t stay away from him. Our attraction was instant, and I knew within seconds of our handshake (we had mutual friends and we met on a group night out) that we would soon be having sex, and I was right.
But I wasn’t prepared for just how intense our fucking would be. Rob was a lot older than me, and even though I was very experienced, sexually, I was a novice compared to Rob. When they say people improve with age, they were talking about Rob. He taught me things in the bedroom that I’d never tried before, and I couldn’t wait to practice as often as possible with him. When we’d been fucking for a few weeks, he began introducing different techniques to our lovemaking that really stepped things up a gear, so I thought I’d share the Top 5 sexual positions that I grew to know and love, thanks to the delectable Rob.
1. The Sex Swing
I’d never used one of these before, although I’d seen them in the various sex stores I go to. It’s basically a harness that you attach to the door, or ceiling, and the straps and loops enable you to get your body into various positions, for some mindblowing sex. My favorite was to slip my legs through the loops and ‘sit’ on the straps, my thighs taking the weight, then to lean backwards, my hands on the floor. This way, my pussy was ‘offered’ up to Rob, my legs wide open, and he could fuck me standing up, using the hanging straps to hold onto while he pumped in and out of me. We managed to get really deep penetration this way, and if my arms got tired, all I’d have to do was lift them off the floor and ‘swing’ for a bit, while Rob was still fucking me, so we got great motion, too. You have to make sure the swing is attached VERY securely, though, so it can take the weight of two people, if necessary. Rob loved screwing me this way, as he got to see my tits bouncing upside down on my chest as he rammed me. He got a great view of my cunt, too. For me, the blood rush to my head as I’m hanging upside down, adds to the power of my orgasm.
2. Stairway to Heaven
I live in an olde-worlde English country cottage not far from Stonehenge, which is very magical and fairytale-like. My stairs are steep and quite rickety, but I discovered that they’re just great for having sex on. The staircase is made up of two sets of stairs, so there’s a small ‘landing’ (as the Brits call it) halfway up, just enough space for me to lean back on. The ballustrade has lots of spindles in it, so I used to get drape myself across this landing, open my legs, reach behind me and grab hold of the ballustrade while Rob went down on me. The slope of the stairs meant I could stretch my legs out into the air while he ate me out, and use the ballustrade behind me to pull and push myself on and off his face the more intense we got.
3. Restroom Raunch
As I said, I knew Rob and I would be fucking very soon after meeting, and it was actually about two hours into the group meal we were all having. We’d been throwing eyes at each other all evening, until neither of us could stand it any longer. The restaurant wasn’t busy, so I knew there was a real opportunity to see some action if we timed it right. I smiled at him as I got up and slipped away from the table, and he gave it a minute or so and followed me. Once inside the girl’s bathroom, I dragged him into a cubicle and we were naked in seconds. I love fucking in semi-public places, and because this was a guy I’d never so much as swapped a sentence with before, it just made the whole thing super-hot. There’s not much room in a toilet cubicle – and not much time, either – so we had to be quick and efficient. I never wear panties, so it was easy for him to just hoist up my tight dress, and finger me to get my juices going, before spinning me round and bending me over the tiny sink next to the toilet (they each had their own units). Because I was already wet from thinking about his cock in my cunt, he slid in easy, and we spent a heavenly few minutes screwing over the sink. I love being taken from behind, because guys can get deeper, and I love it when they reach around in front of me and squeeze my boobs, too, so it’s win-win for me. He made me cum in no time at all, rough and fast, and afterwards, we simply cleaned ourselves up and went back to the table just in time for dessert. Obviously, we took way more time with each other when I got him back to my place later, but that first, restroom fuck remains one of the spiciest I’ve ever had.
4. Anal Glory
Anal isn’t for everyone (see A Is For Anal for some beginner’s tips), but if you’re into some serious backdoor action, you know what I mean when I say it can be the most intense, sexual experience for both men and women. I like to lie flat on my stomach across the entire bed when I’m being ass-fucked, because every time my lover thrusts into me, my clit and pubic bone are pushed hard into the mattress, so I’m getting double stimulation. This works even better for me on a harder surface, like a table or the floor, but guys can have a hard time getting comfortable this way (it’s not all about me, right?). Sometimes I’ll place a bullet vibe underneath me, so my clit gets a full workout while my asshole is being stretched. Other times, Rob used to push his hand under my pussy and finger me while he pumped my ass, pulling me up slightly as he did so. It meant I didn’t have to do a thing, which was great. Again, your lover needs to be quite strong to do this. My asshole is incredibly sensitive, and Rob liked to go slow, so we could go at it this way for literally hours.
5. Electric Dreams
Before I met Rob, I liked to think I’d tried just about everything, sexually, but I was wrong. Rob introduced me to the wonders of electro-stimulation, and even though I was a little reticent at first (I like a little S&M but I wasn’t into real pain), I was amazed to discover that a short, sharp shock, can really add to the electricity in the bedroom – literally. For my birthday, Rob bought me an electrosex kit. It contained lots of little metal clamps that you could attach to a generator, with variable charge settings. To start with, he’d attach a small clamp to each of my nipples (they were very comfortable, and quite cold, which made my nipples erect immediately), then sent the lowest charge surging through my teats. It felt tingly, nothing major, but I did notice that my nipples responded immediately and, after a few seconds, I could feel the faintest of stimulations beginning to wash over my belly and down to my pussy. I thought “well if this is how good it feels at the mildest setting, and not even anywhere near my glory hole, what must it feel like when this thing really gets going?”. In fact, despite Rob being keen for me to get comfortable before progressing even further, it was me who couldn’t wait to crank things up a gear. Before long, I was lying back on my bed as I let him attach clamps to my pussy lips, and then to my clit. He’d vary the power, from low, to mild, to high, and I’m telling you, this little toy could give me an orgasm within seconds, it was incredible. After lots of experimentation, for both of us, we found the best technique. That was for me to have clamps on my clit and nipples, and Rob to have a couple on his balls while he fucked me. Rob’s cock would feel twice as big and twice as hard, and his orgasms were so intense, he’d be shooting off inside me for a good ten seconds, and he’d stay harder for longer, afterwards (I like to play with a guy’s cock after he’s cum). For me, electrosex was the first time I’d had a dual orgasm, from both my G spot and clit, so it’s hard to settle for anything else after that!