The Alphabet of Sex – H Is For Horny

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Ever since I moved to the UK, I’ve noticed that they use this word a lot – horny, meaning very turned on and in need of a good fucking. I love the word because it sounds dirty and naughty without being too “in your face.” But do you ever have times when you’re just not feeling horny at all? Whether you’re stressed at work or have a demanding home life, it’s not easy to get in the mood for sex.

I believe we should feel naughty all of the time, so I thought I’d share my favorite ways of being able to feel horny all day long.

1 – Wear sexy lingerie

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It doesn’t matter where you’re going, what you’re doing or who you’re doing it with, wearing sexy lingerie just automatically makes you feel horny. I could be running to the store in my sweats with tied back hair and filthy sneakers, but I always have hot panties on. There’s something about the feeling of satin and lace against my pussy which just makes me feel permanently horny. And if you feel sexy on the inside, it shows on the outside. So throw out any unflattering underwear and splash out on a whole new drawer of gorgeous lingerie to make you feel special all of the time. Buy sexy lingerie here.

2. Use scent

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I mean not just perfumes, but anything from scented candles and incense, to aromatic foods and, of course, our own unique scents. I love being surrounded by smells like sandalwood, patchouli and musk, because they ignite past memories of great sex and former lovers who were fabulous bed. But my favorite scent is always that raw smell of sex, it’s our natural pheromones working overtime to excite us. If you’re single, or in a relationship where the sex is just not happening, then don’t be afraid to satisfy yourself. When I masturbate, I love smelling myself afterwards, that hot rawness of my own pussy is just the best smell out there. Buy sexy scents here.

3. Watch a naughty movie

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Feeling horny is all about stimulating the senses, so if you and your lover need a kick in the right direction, either check out some of the hot pornos out there right now, or log in to a live sex show online – there are lots of websites offering live voyeuristic sex and most of them are secure to use. There’s nothing hotter than lying with your lover and watching other people have sex. How can you not get in the mood after that? Get naughty movies here.

4. Invest in a new sex toy

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We’ve already touched on masturbation (excuse the pun!) but even if you have a treasure chest full of sex toys, it’s easy to get bored with the same old vibrators and dildos, so maybe it’s time to expand your sexual horizons and look at purchasing something new. My personal favorites include anal beads, which I use at the same time as a vibe on my clit to give me an extra sensation from my ass when I orgasm. I also love those cute little vibrators which fit in your panties. They’re basically clit-sized, and remote-controlled, so you can just slip them in as you go about your day and get yourself off quick and easy as and when you need to. You can also buy the built-in version attached to special panties. I get mine from Sienna Sinclaire’s store, here.

BBx

The Alphabet of Sex – G is for G Spot

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G is for G-Spot

No, it’s not a myth. Women really do have G-spots – that magical place inside us which, when triggered, releases a torrent of climactic goodness. Tragically, it’s not just men who don’t believe in its existence, plenty of women, too, have never experienced what it’s like to have their G-spot stimulated, because they just don’t know where it is.

It’s rare that women climax vaginally, and that’s because our main pleasure point, our clitoris, is located outside the body, and away from where contact is made when we fuck. Sure, we can use vibrators or get our lovers (but usually ourselves!) to stimulate us during sex, so we have at least a small chance of orgasming at the same time as the guys, but even if that happens, I promise you that a clitoral orgasm is NOTHING LIKE a G-Spot orgasm. For this reason alone, women must make it their mission to find, and have their lover find, this super-sensitive place inside us, because once that happens, sex will never be the same again… So,how to find it?

This is written for guys, to help you become superheroes in the bedroom, but women too can learn a few tips. Remember, sex toys are your friend, and there are loads of G-spot vibrators out there so you can have some saucy G-spot fun all by yourself. My favorites include the Je T’aime Le Point G and the Waterproof G-Spot Glitz. If you’re a beginner, try the inexpensive My First G-Spot Massager in pink, until you’re ready to graduate to the bigger models.

 1.  How to find it

gpotGet your lover to lie on her back somewhere comfortable – on the bed or in the bath. Insert one two fingers up inside her vagina, then feel backwards, as though you were ‘hooking’ her back. You should feel some lightt ridges and then a smooth, fleshy spot. This is the G-spot! You’ll know when you’ve hit the spot, as she might get an urge to pee. The G-spot is located on the urethra wall, so touching it can trigger that sensation. She’s unlikely to pee, so don’t worry, it’s just a false alarm!

You can also use a sex toy to find her G-spot. As mentioned, there are plenty of vibrators and dildos specifically designed to trigger the G-spot, so don’t be afraid to get some help.

2. How to work her

fingerOnce you’ve located her G-spot, begin to massage it slowly and lightly. Touch her in a rhythm that suits you both and feel how her body responds to your touch. Feel how her other genitals respond, too – her clitoris, her mons pubis, her vulva…they all have a role to play here. Just go with the flow and keep that massage rhythm going – you’ll soon know how fast or slow to go. The important thing is for your lover to know that she can just let go and leave herself in your capable hands.

3. What will happen

orgasmG-spots are very powerful things. It’ll help if your lover empties her bladder, for reasons already mentioned, because when that orgasm hits, she’ll definitely want to surrender to the waterfall of climax, which often means lots of other muscles around that area will relax. What you don’t want, is for your lover to try and hold her orgasm, afraid that she’ll pee if she lets go. She needs to feel totally at ease and able to just go with the flow of her climax. If she does this, that climax will be ten times more powerful than anything she’s experienced clitorally. The easy solution for those peeing/orgasming fears, is to have sex in the bath – that way it doesn’t matter!

When she approaches climax, encourage her that it’s OK to let go, to not hold anything back. Just like guys, she’ll feel a powerful urge to ejaculate. All she’s doing is expelling the fluid which has built up inside her during arousal, exactly the same as you do. The first time she does this, she might be surprised about how much cum she releases, but one thing she won’t argue with is the immense pleasure now flooding through her body.

So if you want to be ‘that guy’ who is the only one able to stimulate your lover this way, get practising on her. Then, when you’re an expert with your hands, start training your cock to hit that magic spot every time. Just knowing that her pleasure is your No.1 priority, should be enough to earn you some Brownie points, and who knows how she’ll want to repay you!

Have fun!

BBx

Sex Snacks #4 – Deedee: Dangerous Liaison – FREE e-Book available now @ Smashwords!

Wow, what a crazy 6 months it’s been. I had to move home, twice, get a new job, and then try and enjoy some of the rare hot English summer. Is it really December next week? Well I promise I won’t be so tardy with the rest of the Sex Snacks series – there are 22 to go, after all!

So after an unwanted delay, the next short story in the erotica series is now online @ Smashwords, for your FREE enjoyment. Hope you enjoy it, and don’t forget to review if you did!

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Synopsis:

Deedee Miller is a 19-year old intern at the Ladysmith Theater in Calabasas, CA. The latest show in town is a production of “Les Liaisons Dangereuse” starring Hollywood heart throb, Brett Carrey. Reminded of a previous lover, Deedee struggles to keep her desires under wraps as she becomes seduced by the sensual, erotic ambiance of the play…and the players.

Part of the Sex Snacks series of erotic short stories.

Enjoy!

BBxx

The Alphabet of Sex – F is for Fucking

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F is for Fucking…

Of course it is! Everybody should fuck as often as possible – it’s great for mind, body and soul. Don’t make the mistake of thinking sex is just a physical, animal thing. It’s way more than that. Obviously, it’s different for men and women – but us girls are actually luckier because we have lots of ways of cumming, whereas guys tend to rely on their cocks. So I thought I’d share my own favorite positions, so girls can get experimenting, and guys can get educating!

 1.  The Fold-In-Half

This might sound painful, but it’s really not. Girls, lie back on the bed and put a pillow under your butt. Then lift your legs up as though you’re about to hook them over your lover’s shoulders, but keep them lifted and pull them even further back towards you – as though you’re bending yourself in half. The pillow gives leverage and support so it’s really not uncomfortable. Your lover will then be able to push his cock much deeper inside you. I find that my G-spot gets a real workout in this position, and when it feels like I’m about to cum, I then tell my lover to lift himself a little, so he can grind against my clit as he fucks me faster. Seconds later, I’m cumming from inside and out. Takes practice, but once you get the rhythm right, this is mindblowing.

2. The Flat Doggy

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Doggy-style – the guys love this but it’s a real winner for us girls, too, if you do it right. Being fucked from behind lets your lover get a real grip on your hips so he can pound you to his heart’s content. They love seeing our tits swing below us, as well (although this can get painful for those girls with planet-size globes!). Here’s a different way of doing the doggy, though. Lie flat on your stomach, and raise your ass a little so he can get inside you. When he’s into his rhythm, the friction is amazing as he presses down on top of you, and you also get to grind your clit into the bed underneath you. You don’t have to have stamina, because you’re lying down, and he’s doing all the work – bonus! Seriously, though, this position is ideal because it doesn’t take practice and you don’t need to be superfit. It’s a guaranteed climax-shaker, the next best thing to being fucked in your sleep, really. Mmmm.

3. The Cowgirl

So-called because you’re riding him on top, and I always like to tell my lover to “giddy up!”. Have your lover lie down, his legs slightly apart. Then get on top of him with your back to him, keep your legs together with your feet sitting in between his own legs. Then lower yourself onto his cock, and get riding. Because your legs are together, you’re going to feel much tighter on his cock, and you get the tightness of him, too. You can ‘swivel’ in this position, too, so give him some face time so he can watch your tits as you ride him, then turn back for when you really want to get thrusting. Use his knees and thighs as supports for your hands, and don’t neglect your clit, either – you have great access to it with this position. Better still, have your lover rub you off as you’re riding him.

4. On the Table!

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One of my most erotic sexual experiences, was being fucked on the kitchen table by my new lover who just couldn’t wait to get me to the bedroom. It really was like something from the movies, the way he just swept everything aside, threw me down, pulled my skirt up and dragged my hips to the edge of the table, before thrusting his cock right up into me, all within about 10 seconds. It was delicious, and not just the spontaneity of it, but also the feel. Your lover can get really, really deep inside you by doing it this way. If you hook your legs over his shoulders, you can pull him closer when it suits you, and he also has great access to your clit. By standing up, he gets more thrusting power and rhythm control, and all you have to do is lie back and let him work his magic.

5. The Stripper

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Possibly my favorite, because it involves real intimacy. I sit on my lover’s lap, like a lap dancer, and slide onto his cock. Then I grind my clit against him, leaning back a little so my tits are in his face, which he loves to feast on as he slow-fucks me. This can go on forever, as slow or as pumping as we like. You basically have total control over when and how you cum. We can kiss, suck, lick, all while his cock is hot inside me, and I love it when a guy’s sucking on my tits as he fucks me, so this position is ideal. I go totally off into a world of my own and the orgasm is incredible. Sometimes, when he knows I’m about to cum, he gently pushes me off him, onto my back, and goes down on me just in time for him to lick me to distraction. Timing is crucial on that one!

Sex Snacks #2 – Betty: Valentine’s Delight – FREE @ Smashwords until Feb 17th

Hi everyone! And Happy Valentine’s!!

As promised, here’s a new naughty story for you to celebrate this gorgeously romantic day. At the moment it’s only on Smashwords, and you can download your FREE copy right now, for three days only. Just enter the coupon code at the checkout, and get your sexy little story-ette right now!

Synopsis:

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Betty Taylor, 29, is dreading Valentine’s. After splitting with her cheating lover, Betty’s newly-single, and just wants February 14th to come and go as quickly as possible. But when her life is saved by a handsome stranger, the sexual chemistry between them sizzles, and Betty thinks that maybe she can secure herself some sultry, sexy action on this one enchanted evening, after all.

Coupon code: LE42V 

Valid until: February 17th 2013

I hope you enjoy this steamy little tale, and don’t forget to review if you like it! Speak soon!

Love, BB xx

The Alphabet Of Sex – E Is For Experimentation

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I’ve been on forced hiatus for a few months, so sorry for leaving everybody in the lurch. I hope you had a super Christmas and New Years, and that you got some sexy gifts and PLENTY of personal attention over the festive season! I know I did…

Back to my Alphabet Of Sex, and E is for Experimentation...

As most of you know, I love to try things I’ve never tried before. Sometimes I think there’s nothing left to try, but then something comes along that I think “well, I never did that…yet”.

I didn’t lose my virginity until quite late, but every time I try a new sexual position, or new sex toy, or even just a new guy, it always feels like I’m popping my cherry all over again, because it’s simply a ‘new experience’.

As I’ve gotten older, it does get harder and harder to find things that excite me as freshly as stuff did right at the start, but I just tell myself that finding new challenges is up to me, it’s absolutely my responsibility to go and search out experiences that keep me feeling alive. Nothing comes along by nature, because nature dictates that we must determine out own survival.

For this reason, I try to do something new at least once a month, to keep my sex life new and fresh. I have reliable lovers that I can always go to if I need company, and a guaranteed great fuck, but it’s vital not to fall into a routine, no matter how happy my lover/s make me, because the moment I get settled, is the moment I stop looking for something more, and we should always be looking for ‘more’.

This is one of the reasons I insist on staying single. I like intimacy as much as the next person, but I refuse to be someone’s ‘girlfriend’. It restricts me and makes me feel labeled.

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One way of maintaining my individuality, and my appetite for something different, is that I like to experiment, and deviate, from whatever the ‘norm’ is. So below are a few suggestions for those of you who feel a little stale in your sex life. Spice things up a bit, do something a little out of the ordinary. Whether you’re in a long term relationship, or are happily playing the field – it doesn’t matter. These suggestions are for everybody. Don’t settle for routine and normality, because nothing is more guaranteed to kill a relationship, or stunt your single lifestyle, than just going through the motions.

Live a little, and let me know how you get on.

1. Tie me up, tie me down…

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I was quite late to the bondage scene, perhaps I was a little afraid to trust a lover to tie me up. It’s not that I make a habit of fucking men I don’t know, but even if you’ve know a guy for a while, letting someone put bonds on you is about as trusting as it gets. I’m happy to say, though, that I’ve never had a bad experience, so if you’ve always wondered what it would be like to have sex while your wrists and ankles are tied up, restricting your movement, try some playful restraints to start you off, before switching things up a bit, maybe with some fetish ball gags or bondage bar.

2. Dress up!

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Everyone loves a little role play. Fantasy plays a huge part in my sex life, because it removes inhibitions for both me and my lover, and we can be anybody we choose without surrendering anything of ourselves. My favorite outfits are schoolgirl and nurse, but when I found myself bringing a real-life cop home one night, I brought out my own undercover uniform, which really got him going and I have to say it was some of the best sex I’d ever had. Getting fucked in the ass by a guy in uniform (yes, I made him keep it on…) was mindblowing.

3. No pain, no gain…

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This was a non-starter for me, many moons ago, but about three years ago, my lover of the time asked me ever-so-nicely, if I would let him put nipple clamps on my tits while we fucked. I laughed at first, because the idea just seemed so silly, and I couldn’t believe the thought of it turned him on, but I kind of liked him so I said yeah, I’d give it a try. And boy am I glad I did! Sure, they hurt a little bit, but as we got down to it, the feel of these tiny, cold metal things pulling my nipples in a kind of rhythm as we fucked, was weirdly erotic to me, and by the time I was ready to come, my nipples started to feel really hot, like I was conducting electricity through the clamps. It’s a hard sensation to explain, so you really have to try it, but never say never! I don’t use them often – usually only when the guy wants to, but the sensation was definitely something I could get used to.

4. Go swinging!

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I don’t mean the partner-swop parties (although they’re really fun), I mean the swings you can fix to doors. They’re really easy to instal, and your lover can fuck you a lot deeper than he can on a bed. It helps if you’re quite flexible (I do a lot of yoga and tantric sex, so I’m pretty clued up on what satisfies me), and you need to stretch and warm up before attempting a prolonged swing-screwing session, but once you get the hang of it (literally!), you’ll enjoy mindblowing sex, from every direction and every angle.

These are just a few things you can try out, if you’re feeling experimental, so let me know how you get on.

Next week, normal regular service is resumed, and I have a super-hot free story heading your way to say thanks for being so patient with me.

Have a great weekend, and come back soon!

BB xx

“The Drifter” Erotic Short Story Series – Now Available on AMAZON!

Happy New Year,

Hope 2013 brings you all everything you wish for. Remember, be amazing!

In case you need some sexy new stories to launch you into the new year, or are still too hungover to do any real work (!), you might like to know that my erotica short story series, “The Drifter” is now available through Amazon. Check out my author page here, where you can easily find all the titles listed.

Join or hot hero, Mike McCoy, as he fucks his way across California, trying to deal with the grief of losing his beloved wife, Cassie.

Treat yourself to some January japery, and snuggle up under the covers with these hot little stories – guaranteed to make these winter nights sizzle!

Sending much love out to you all over the virtual ether…

BB xx

The Honey Trap Files – Now Available on AMAZON!

Hey everyone,

Hope this finds you all excited about Christmas. Just to let you know that all short stories in my erotica series “The Honey Trap Files” are now available to purchase through Amazon, as well as the easy and convenient anthology. The Anthology also contains an exclusive bonus prequel, in which our foxy heroine, CJ Mills, tells us how she first go introduced to sex.

It’s hot! Check out my author page here.

So why not treat yourself – or someone you love –  to some erotic reading pleasures this festive season, and get those cockles well and truly warming…

Happy Holidays everyone! BB xx

Sex Snacks #1 – New Short Story Now Available @ Smashwords (Free Coupon Here)

Christmas is nearly here, so I thought I’d treat you all with some new sexy new short stories, designed to be ‘bite-size’, so you can give yourselves a quick thrill during your lunch break.

Sex Snacks #1 – Alyssa: Double Seduction is now available at Smashwords – RRP $0.99

But you can get it for FREE for one week only, by quoting this coupon code: ZL39Z

                                                        Synopsis:

Get it here!

Alyssa Craven has been having regular morning therapy sessions before school, with Dr Miles; an eminent psychiatrist, well into his sixties. He’s always liked Alyssa, and now that she’s 18, it’s been impossible to ignore the girl’s blossoming into womanhood. And Alyssa likes to talk. Once, she only used to talk about her insecurities and hidden emotions. But lately, Alyssa’s therapy sessions have been getting more intense, and Dr Miles looks forward to hearing – and watching – this hot little senior, as she regales him with all the lurid things she’d like to do to her crush; her teacher, Mr Diaz. And lucky for Dr Miles, Alyssa’s more than willing to show her trusted therapist, exactly how she intends to seduce the good professor….

I hope you enjoy this initial little snackette, and check back for some more festive treats in the days and weeks ahead! If you like what you find, do leave a review, and check out my many other titles – many of them free!

Happy reading!

White Slave Trade: Captives In Casablanca – Buy it Now On Smashwords (Free Coupon Here)

Hey everyone, exciting news!

My first full-length novel, White Slave Trade: Captives in Casablanca, is now available for download on my Smashwords site.

RRP: $1.99

But you can get it for FREE for one week only, by quoting this coupon code: EZ88W

Synopsis:

My first full length e-novel is a character-led adventure into the deserts, dangers and dark side of Morocco. Cass Garner is a bubbly girl, waiting to marry her childhood sweetheart, Dave. Her best friend, the big-breasted Myra, has organized Cass’s hen weekend in the sultry city of Casablanca, a place none of them have been before. Also along for the ride are Cass’s beautiful younger sister, the blonde and suntanned Stacey; outspoken, sassy Laura, with the model looks and catwalk attitude; independent hippie, Jem; and the flame-haired Natalie. All are gorgeous, fun-loving, modern Western girls, who like nothing more than to hit the cocktails and the dance floor, in the skimpiest outfits possible. Back home in England, this would be a normal Saturday night, but as soon as they touch down in Casablanca, the girls realize that the phrase “look but don’t touch”, is unfamiliar to the local Moroccan men. After an upsetting night being mauled, chased and propositioned, the hen party decide to hire a car and head out to an isolated beach for some peace and quiet – and no hassle. But when a group of Berber nomads come across the girls skinny-dipping in the ocean, they see an opportunity too good to miss, and Cass and her friends soon find themselves in a struggle for life and death…and much, much worse.

WARNING: This e-book contains medium-erotic graphic scenes, and a lot of adult language. Please do not purchase if you are easily offended.